Mrssavageangel Slimming World – Ground Zero

I wrote my last Slimming World update in April last year. We’d not long received Oscar’s Autism diagnosis and dealing with that, physically every day and emotionally every minute of every day was hard. Too hard to think about much else if truth be told. Is it realistic to be counting syns when you’re heart is breaking over and over again? Receiving Oscar’s diagnosis was such a sucker punch to the guts, it just took everything out of me, including any motivation I had to keep losing weight. If you have been reading for a while you’ll know back in April I decided to ‘maintain’. It was a good decision at the time but I was unaware of just how hard the year was going to get. Not the day to day of living with an autistic child, but the bigger picture stuff. The coming to terms with who I was now, the life I was going to be leading, the logistics of that life and what it meant for us as family. I wont lie, it floored me. I stopped going to group in August and I eventually turned back to familiar habits. ‘Comfort’ eating. It did nothing of the sort, but it rarely does. I gained weight. A bit and then a bit more and then a lot more. I’m not proud of it, but I wont apologise for it either. I challenge anyone to go through something similar and not turn to some form of vice or other out of desperation just to feel a little bit better today.


2015 sucked. It sucked balls. But 2015 is over. It’s been nearly a year since we got the diagnosis and while for ages it felt like I’d never feel like myself ever again, over Christmas I realised I would, but that it was down to me to carve some space out in my life to do so. Christmas was unbelievably good (you can read about it here if you’re so inclined). We went away. Put everything in our lives that was causing us sadness down for a couple of weeks and saw people we loved. We couldn’t have done anything better. Yes, life was here waiting for us when we got back, ready to be muddled through, but just a small step back gave us perspective. Oscar’s care and education and all that jazz, will be whatever it is because of me. But it will also be whatever it is regardless of how how much I weigh and how happy I am. So I have a choice. I can live my life being sad and heavy, or I can take some time and space back for me, Autism or not.

So last night I made the decision to go back to group and start again. I can’t tell you how nervous I was. I had a terrible head and back ache all day. I just had it in my head that everyone would be looking at me, judging me, seeing just how much I’d ‘failed’. Then Ben asked, would I feel that way about anyone else who’d had a break and gained any weight, regardless of their situation? Of course he was right and I hate it when he’s right 😉 So I strapped on my fighting boots and walked right back in there. To be honest it felt so lovely to be back. There were lots of new faces (with it being January) but there were also existing members and friends I hadn’t seen in ages. And everyone had the same sheepish grin when we talked about Christmas and many even had the same nervous look in their eye that I did. No one was judging. I don’t know why I ever thought any one would be. Everyone who goes to Slimming Word goes with the same goal; to lose weight and to get some support while doing it. It wouldn’t have lasted all these years if anyone was ever made to feel judged negatively for making a positive choice to (re)join.

Weigh in wasn’t much fun obviously, but do you know, it was what it was and in that moment I couldn’t change that. All I can do is move forward. I made the decision to keep my old book, because I don’t want to wipe all my history for good. I did work really hard for that and I’m proud of it. But I’ve drawn a big old line under last year’s results and I’m starting again. I don’t want to think ‘Oh I’ve gained X amount and I’m back to X date’. That’s not going to help. So today was day 1. I’m doing this like a new member. I’ve set a new interim target of 2 stone loss and this week I’m going for 2lb.


I wasn’t planning to blog about this all again, but when I mentioned on FB that I was going back to SW, someone told me how much they’d missed my posts. Which was sweet. So I thought why not. What I wont be doing this time round is feeling under so much pressure to write interesting, motivational updates that I’ll come to loathe doing them. These posts will just be me updating of how I’m doing and working through any issues I’ve had. And maybe having a few laughs along the way 😉

I hope you had an awesome Christmas and New Year.

Here’s to a happy, healthier 2016






A Cornish Mum


  1. Yes! Honesty and writing for YOU! Isn’t that what blogging is about really? I have missed your SW posts too and look forward to following your new journey. Remember, you did brilliantly before so you can do it again, but don’t beat yourself up if some weeks don’t go as planned. Good luck x

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much Jules. Yes that’s what I started writing for but somewhere along the way I heaped too much pressure on myself! Hoping I’ve learnt my lesson 😉

  2. Good luck, you sound like you have a great attitude towards weight loss/ eating and good motivation! #PicknMix

  3. What a year for you and your family, lets hope that 2016 is a better one for you all. I know so many people that have joined Slimming World and tell me how great and supportive everyone is. I haven’t got the courage to go the classes just yet. I am trying to do some of it at home and I will be looking forward to your posts for some inspiration!!!! 🙂 #picknmix

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much honey. It really is the hardest part, taking that first step through the door, but once you do you are in so much more control it feels great. Well, that’s how it always felt for me. If it really is something you want to do, you’ll do it. When YOU’RE ready. You’ll get there if you want to, believe me. Massive hugs xxx

  4. Good luck for 2016! May the slimming force be with you 😀 #FartGlitter

  5. That’s a great attitude! Well done for facing your fears and going back because it’s what you want for you. Good luck with your new journey! #sharethejoy

  6. Well done you for being brave. I think we’re all feeling a little sheepish about our Christmas calories. I certainly am. Especially as I got an activity tracker and started putting my food intake in. Yowza. Best of luck meeting your goal.

    Thanks for linking up to #fartglitter x

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thanks you! I don’t feel particularly brave, but something had to change. I don’t think many people get out of Christmas without a few extra lbs. Being aware of what you’re eating/doing is one of the best things you can do though, so hooray to you too!

  7. lizzie ( firstooth ) says:

    Well done for jumping back on the horse and getting back into the swing of things. I’d have been nervous first night too but your husband is right, they’d be more pleased to see you back than judge for not going, life happens. Good luck with it, I bet it’ll be a nice little break for you to get your groove back and if you end up with a healthier lifestyle that a bonus! #sharethejoy

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much Lizzie. It will be nice to get out of an evening again. Even if it’s just to group, it’s a break and it’s for me. And like you say, if I end up healthier too then it’s win win!!

  8. Lisa I punched the air when I read this post because I’m SO proud of you for going back and for saying “you know what to hell with 2015 – 2016 here I come!” Such an awesome, positive and inspiring post. Good luck! Thanks for much for linking up at #sharethejoy

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much Michelle. I didn’t think I’d feel it again but I do. Taking a step back and being honest with myself was the best thing I could have done.

  9. Good for you, and good luck with SW in 2016. Like you say it’s a whole new year, let’s hope it will be heaps better than 2015 for you #sharethejoy

  10. I hope 2016 is a much happier year for you lovely, I really do. Good luck with the weight loss, already had a sneak peek on FB of how you’re getting on 😉 Thanks for linking up to #PicknMix

    Stevie x

  11. Oh I love this post it’s so positive. Well done you, it’s really hard going to that first meet. I dragged my Mum along with me. I lost 2 stone doing slimming world and really actually enjoyed it. Good luck and thanks for linking to #PickNMix

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