Oscar’s Haircut at Little Locks

I try and find the joy in the everyday, well, every day, because that’s what make up life; the little things. But if you follow me at all on social media you will know that this week we’ve had what might be a little thing to many, but to us is a massive cause for celebration.

Oscar’s autism hasn’t shown us too many sensory issues as yet, at least not those you may recognise as typically autistic. He’s OK with sound and pretty cool with new places and crowds. If anything he’s under (hypo) sensitive to things like pain and he looooves to run. But one thing he can’t stand is very typically autistic. He hates, and I mean hates, having his hair cut. We’ve found a way to get him to have his hair brushed (just and only on a good day) and his nails clipped, but despite trying any number of things we just couldn’t get him to have his hair cut.

Oscar hates having his hair cut

Oscar hates having his hair cut

Then at the end of last year a new salon opened in Haslemere. A specialist children hair salon, Little Locks was set up by Hannah Clements and her family. Hannah has many years experience in salon management and her niece, the lovely Georgia, is a fully qualified stylist, specialising in children’s hair. It seemed like a no brainer that the two should come together and open the kind of salon Haslemere was clearly lacking. I can’t tell you how excited I was when I found out Little Locks was opening just down the road from us. We’ve tried various salons over the years and, except his first two haircuts, they’ve all been pretty disastrous. We’ve tried having stylists come to the house, including friends he was familiar with, and even I had a go at loping bits off here and there but it made no difference. I got the feeling that if we could get him slowly used to the notion of a haircut, this might help. So when Little Locks opened I decided to discuss my idea with Hannah.

The Little Locks team couldn’t have been more understanding. Hannah’s son is also autistic, so she knew the angle I was coming from straight away. She told me one of the reasons they had decided to open a children’s salon was because as a family, they were acutely aware of the need for sensitivity around something as potentially anxiety inducing as a child’s hair cut. The salon on Weyhill is a large airy space, with a choice of cool chairs (Bat Car anyone?), TVs at every station, with a huge choice of DVDs to watch and a play area. But the thing that impressed me the first time I went in was how open and calm the environment was. One of my big dislikes about other childrens salons I’d been in was the amount of stuff everywhere. Hair products, toys and books to buy. Pester power purchases for some parents, but needless stimulation for my guy. I’ve also been put off other salons by how geared towards girls the decor has been. Little Locks has avoided this, with beautifully gender neutral decoration, and toys (to play with not buy) and cool touches designed to appeal to both male and female customers.

So at Hannah’s suggestion we started the process of familiarising Oscar with the salon back in January. Initially we just popped in to play. And he loved it. Then we made an appointment just for him to play with Georgia, all of which he happily did. He still wouldn’t even let her brush his hair though. This carried on regularly for eight weeks. We got to the point that he loved going in there. He would talk about the salon at home, he would even ask to go to ‘Haircut’, but every time we went in, he would refuse to have anyone touch his hair and just wanted to play. Usually with their train set!

Oscar loves the trains at Little Locks

Oscar loves the trains at Little Locks

Despite all the haircut episodes of cartoons we were watching (I particularly recomend Dora and Team UmiZoomi!) and the amount of children he’d seen having their hair done at Little Locks, I started to worry. Had I gone over board with the ‘letting him get used to it’ shtick? Would he ever understand that Little Locks was a place to actually have a haircut, and not just to play?

Things have slowly come to a head over the past few weeks. We are going to Devon for his birthday/Easter holiday this week and his hair was getting so long and so heavy over his eyes that he actually couldn’t see properly. I decided I was just going to have to take the horse by the reigns. Even if I was going to have to pin him down, he had to at least get his fringe cut. It was starting to be dangerous to leave it any longer. So I made him an appointment on Tuesday. Hannah and I found a time when the salon would be as quiet as possible and they booked an extra long time slot for him.

The morning of the appointment I drew him a very basic visual timetable, explaining he was going in the buggy, to Little Locks, that he would have his hair cut ?? and then he could play with their trains ? and go to Dylan’s for ice cream?. He was NOT happy with this plan, but we went over it several times and I calmly explained that while I knew he didn’t like it, that it was going to happen. When it came to leave we went through it again and he screwed up the timetable, but got into the buggy without a fuss. The fact that he did that, I hoped bode well for the rest of it.

We arrived at the salon without incident and he immediately tried to run to the toys. I gently explained that these would come after the hair cut and led him over to the chairs. It became quickly apparent that he wasn’t ready to sit in the car chair alone yet, so we headed to the other end of the salon to the more grown up chairs and he sat on my lap. Georgia set up Ben and Holly (Oscar’s choice) on the DVD and I held on tight as she started on the fringe.

Yes he shouted (a lot) to begin with, and squirmed but nothing like as much as he has done on previous attempts. Last year he struggled so hard I pulled all the muscles in my back trying to hold onto him. This was nothing like that. Yes he didn’t like it. And that’s ok. Once he realised that this really was happening he focused on watching Ben and Holly, laid his head on my chest and stopped wriggling. With just an occasional protestation to ensure we still understood he wasn’t enjoying the situation!

Georgia worked quickly and thoroughly giving him as neater a style as she could manage without needing to get too close to the ears or to use the clippers. One step at a time after all. She was even able to use the thinning scissors to take some of the weight out of his hair. As soon as she finished, he jumped down and I stripped his tshirt off to ensure we got rid of as much hair as possible (as I thought trying to get him wearing a gown was probably a step too far yet). And we were done.

He looked AH MAY ZING darling!

A super smart boy plays with the long awaited toys

A super smart boy plays with the long awaited toys

We ran and found the trains and the toys and he played happily. He even found a box of deelyboppers the salon use when they host one of their popcorn and pamper parties and put one on!!! This from the child who would refuse a hat in the depths of winter! He laughed, he showed us toys, he even asked to get in the Bat Car and had great fun ‘driving fast’.

DeeleyBopper time!

DeeleyBopper time!

"Drive fast mummy"

“Drive fast mummy”

Afterwards Georgia and I were both genuinely a bit emotional. All that planning and perseverance and patience and here he was like nothing out of the ordinary had happened. I was full to the brim with pride and gratitude. Georgia told me that it’s times like this that make her job worth doing and that really touched me.

We let him play for a while and then I explained it was time to go and without question he got in the buggy and wolfed the lolly Geogia gave him. I left feeling so proud. I felt like everyone on the street must be able to know by looking at him what monumentous event had just happened in our lives.

So I want to say thank you. To all the team at Little Locks for baring with us all these months and never making us feel anything less than welcome. To Georgia and Hannah for being patient and caring and truly understanding what we needed from you.

And to Oscar. I know you didn’t enjoy it my darling. I hope playing with the trains, and the magazine, the Rocky Dog, the ice cream and the Rocket Ship I got you on the way home helped make up for that. But thank you for trusting me. And making me feel like what I do for you, everything I do for you, is worth it.

My beautiful blue eyed boy

My beautiful blue eyed boy, with his smart new hair.




Thank you so much to Hannah and the team at Little Locks Haslemere. I know your business will go from strength to strength. I was not paid to write this review and I paid for Oscar’s haircut with my own money.

You can book an appointment with any of Little Locks stylists on their website. You can also follow them on Facebook and Instagram



A Cornish Mum




  1. I love this Lisa. You are such an amazing mummy. What a fantastic job you did getting him to this point and he looks adorable!!! Congratulations hun x

  2. What a wonderful post! So lovely that you and the salon were able to ease your son into this so beautifully. Great job 🙂 And the haircut is so cute! #picknmix

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much! Isn’t it gorgeous. I can’t stop looking at it and marvelling how we got to this point!

  3. This sounds a fantastic place, I wish there were more like this with hairdressers or others who really, really understand just what a huuuuge deal it is for our children to even get through the door.
    Thanks for linking up with #SSAmazingAchievements

    • mrssavageangel says:

      It really is an amazing achievement and I cant thanks the guys at Little Locks enough. I seriously cant understand why more places cant work with families to make the little things work, but I’m glad I’ve found one that does. It’s amazing the difference in him since having it cut too! He’s been so much happier!

  4. Wow that sounds like an amazing salon, I wish it was local to me! I felt quite emotional just reading your post, thank you for sharing x


    • mrssavageangel says:

      Oh bless your heart! Thank you so much. It was a really emotional day, but unlike so many I have experienced lately, it wasn’t a weepy sad feeling. I wanted to climb on the rooftops and tell everyone!

  5. Love this post 🙂 gorgeous photos of Oscar, and this salon sounds amazing! Really pleased for you, and hopefully next time it’ll be easier as well. He’s a little star and is lucky to have an amazing Mum

    Thanks for linking up to #PicknMix hon

    Stevie x

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Aww thank you so much Stevie and thank you for choosing as your Blog post of the week! I am honoured! It really was an amazing day and he looks so much better with his hair cut!

  6. I too was also freaked out as a youngster by getting my hair cut (hence why my mum usually di it herself with the kitchen scissors and a large bowl!)…but once they got out the clippers, I always loved that part…and still do! #FamilyFun

  7. Looks fab! My youngest asked to go to the hair dryer shop last week after he went once and realised it was ok. His older sister has a veritable birds nest on her head!! #SpectrumSunday

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much. So glad your youngest is OK with the hairdressers now. It can be such a stressful situation.

  8. That is amazing, I so need a salon like this in Manchester

  9. Oscar’s hair cut looks lovely. What a brilliant idea, I’ve never seen a children’s salon before. How understand they were too. I remember taking my son to the hairdressers and he almost wrecked the place. I got the message and never took him again. He’s an adult now, and when his hair gets too long he cuts it himself, he makes a terrible mess, but then he lets me tidy it up as best as I can. 🙁

    • mrssavageangel says:

      It’s a great idea – you go in and no one has any expectations of your child to behave like an adult! I love that your son has found his own way to cope with what can be a terribly difficult part of life. What a great team you make!

  10. His hair looks fab! Hair cutting is a big problem for most autistic children. The Boy had his done on Saturday and he had a meltdown before she’d finished it. He looks like a punk rocker but at least I can see his eyes lol.. #SpectrumSunday

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much Tracy. Hair cutting is such an everyday thing to some but so so hard for our children. I couldn’t have done it without the help of the salon.

  11. Oh Lisa, Little Locks sounds amazing! And I am so proud of you and Oscar for keeping at it, he looks adorable! Well done little man! Holding a comb has seemed to be the magic touch with Hayden, and the barber talks to him the entire time. Others have been very impatient with him, which makes the whole situation worse. Thank you for linking u to #spectrumsunday hope you join me again this week. After a laptop malfunction (i spilt my wine) the linky will be live later today! xx

    • mrssavageangel says:

      Thank you so much Clare. It really was amazing. I would beyond proud and it’s made such a difference to him. Patience is often the key I find! Hope you’re laptop is fixed eeek!

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